After reading all the suggestions and posts and with my clear person understanding on the issue... United with almost everyone else. I think it's only fair that we as UNGL allow a "Other rules" set for Molotovs. So, when you're opening a game for the match planner you may put "No Molotovs" in the Other Rules section but it [notice]must[/notice] be stated, otherwise they are ON by default.
As for Cups, I think its only fair that we keep reviewing this policy and come to a better understanding of the issue as a whole.
THIS IS A TEMPORARY SOLUTION. I cannot promise this rule will be here forever. I'm just trying to please both sides right now.